I am ill will arthritis, should my husband and i have equal work loads?

mу husband thinks tһаt һе аחԁ i ѕһουƖԁ һаνе equal work loads, even though i һаνе a form οf muscular arthritis, asthma, ADD, аחԁ chronic fatigue syndrome аחԁ іf things aren’t аƖƖ done wһеח һе gets home һе gets mаԁ. Hе аƖѕο gets upset іf i’m ѕο tired tһаt i һаνе tο take a nap. BTW I care fοr ουr 18 month ancient іח tһе day, аחԁ ɡο tο culinary teach full time, 3 days a week. I јυѕt feel tired аחԁ sore аחԁ worn out аƖƖ tһе time, i feel Ɩіkе іt’s being paid worse аחԁ һе′s јυѕt being paid more frustrated wіtһ mе. I јυѕt don’t know wһаt tο rесkοח anymore. Arе һіѕ expectations tο high?

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8 Responses to “I am ill will arthritis, should my husband and i have equal work loads?”

Haku:

March 18, 2010 at 2:34 am

what a dirtbag! don’t give him anymore sex.
joshua b:

March 18, 2010 at 2:57 am

i reckon he has no right to gripe. my hunny and i havbe a personal agreement
if i get behind on what needs to be done, and it bothers him terrible enough to say something to me about it…hes helping! if hes not keen to help, he has no room to talk
red1:

March 18, 2010 at 3:21 am

Your husband should cut you some slack and take the heavier load. He needs to stop being so inconsiderate and man up.
word_filter:

March 18, 2010 at 3:27 am

i suffer from arthritis too, and i have stomach problems, and we have a year ancient son, my husband help me at home, and he used to care for the baby too, now his family is helping with my son, my husband no matter how tired comes from job, if i m sick he makes his food, wahs his clothes and iron, and even clean the house sometimes, and he never complains because i m sick, and he is 8 years younger than me and he is egyption,(arab muslim) divergent of what all people says that arab muslims are terrible husbands, there s many men here like my husband they help if the wife is sick and they say that sickness and health is from God and we must accept it. tell that to ur husband.
Charliey:

March 18, 2010 at 3:56 am

You need to tell your husband hes a jerk, you are sick theres not much you can do really if your sick like that and hell no ya’ll shouldnt have equal work loads what kind of mess is that? your husband is a selfish jerk and you just need to tell him your sick and you cant handle all the work plus the lil child and teach and thats the end of it..
SAMI:

March 18, 2010 at 4:24 am

I heared your version.Let me hear his.
evanzfamily:

March 18, 2010 at 4:53 am

Marraige is a negotiate, on both individuals parts. Its a give and receive relationship, not a score card. Sounds like there is more to your frustration than chores. Talk to your spouse, to discuss and find mutual grounds that make you both lucky. Most couples help each other out. If I have a terrible day, my husband is my support system…and if he has a terrible day, I am his. I dont need someone to walk in front of me…or behind me…rather beside me. The worse thing you could do is nothing, and snub the issues. That only causes resentment, and doesnt resolve anything! Excellent Luck!!
Catfishchic:

March 18, 2010 at 5:19 am

It sounds like they are too high. Does he have any ailments? Tell him you are not wonder woman, and to get off your back and to have some compassion for his wife! I’ll bet that he not only rides your a** all the time, but also never pitches in to help. He sounds selfish to me. I know because I have a monkey on my back too. My husband.